I help couples and individuals have that light bulb moment where they realize what is getting in their way or what they need more or less of. I do that by asking lots of questions. I help couples to identify that there are always at least three parties in each couples session, both partners and their relationship all have needs, desires and need a voice in the room.

 

I work with couples often around codependency. This is such a common denominator with high functioning couples who come to ethical non-monogamy. Those tendencies tend to come into conflict with the newness and growth and learning that happens on that journey and I teach couples how to not fear all of that but to see the benefit that it brings to their relationship and to each of them as they become more secure as a unit but also as their own interdependent selves.

 

I am also an Enneagram Coach so I use this tool to really help individuals and couples get to know themselves more deeply and from that place accept who they are, share that with those they love and ask for what they need and want while setting boundaries around what they don't.

 

I also use my training from The Adult Chair to help people identify and meet their inner parts, see and accept these parts of themselves that developed long ago trying to protect them but are getting in their way now as adults, jealous parts, resistant parts, angry parts they all have something to teach us if we can gain their trust and listen after that they tend to quiet down and not get in our paths as much.