Interested in ENM
Beginner-friendly support for definitions, fears, pacing, agreements, and the first honest conversations.
Ethical non-monogamy coaching
Support for people building honest, expansive connections.
ENM-fluent coaching for individuals, couples, and more-somes navigating communication, jealousy, boundaries, repair, consent, intimacy, and self and relational growth.
Clear paths
Wherever you are in the process, you do not have to explain why your relationship structure works for your relationship.
Opening an existing relationship
Coaching for partners navigating desire, uncertainty, jealousy, consent, and relationship repair while opening.
Couples already practicing ENM
Support for communication patterns, agreements that need updating, resentment, reconnection, and growth.
More-somes and polycules
Help with multi-partner dynamics, shared expectations, boundaries, scheduling, repair, and relational clarity.
Sex, faith, trauma, or shame work
ENM-informed coaching for clients who need their history, beliefs, body, and identity held with care.
Why lived experience matters
Not just ENM-friendly. ENM-fluent.
ENM clients often spend too much time educating the people they turn to for support before receiving the support they need. At Expansive Connection, you do not have to explain why your relationship structure is valid.
Our coaches bring personal ENM experience and professional coaching skills, so sessions can focus on what actually matters: clarity, communication, consent, repair, and building relationships that fit your life.
How we support ENM people
Private coaching, courses, groups, retreats, webinars, and online community.
Private coaching
One-on-one, couples, and more-some sessions focused on the relationship work in front of you.
Self Study Courses
Self-study and supported learning for communication, boundaries, attachment, and relationship skills.
Groups
Peer groups and group coaching for people who want guided support with others on a similar path.
Retreats
Deeper in-person experiences for couples and relationship systems ready for focused work.
Live online workshops
Focused teaching and Q&A around common ENM questions, fears, and skill gaps.
Expansive Circle
Our coach-guided online community for learning, reflection, and connection with people who honor many ways of loving. Build relationship skills and find ongoing support.
Coaching Conversations
Bring the real issue into the room.
Agreements and boundaries
Turn assumptions into agreements you can actually keep. We help you sort out what's a boundary, what's a request, and what's a mutual agreement, start with the smallest commitments you can honor, and set a time to revisit them as real life tests them.
Jealousy and reassurance
Jealousy is information, not failure. We slow it down to find what's underneath, whether that's fear, grief, comparison, an unmet need, or a broken agreement, and help you ask for reassurance in ways that build trust instead of rules.
Communication after rupture
When an agreement breaks or a hard conversation goes sideways, we help you see the cycle you're caught in, interrupt automatic reactions, and repair with accountability instead of blame, so trust can rebuild on honest ground.
Codependency and interdependence
Caring for partners shouldn't mean losing yourself. We look at people-pleasing, over-responsibility, and fear of abandonment, and help you build interdependence: connection that leaves room for each person's needs, agency, and other relationships.
Faith, shame, and identity
Many people arrive carrying religious teachings, family messages, or sexual shame about who they are and how they love. We hold that history with care and help you sort out what you were taught from what you actually believe now.
Multi-partner dynamics
Polycules and more-somes have more voices, calendars, and expectations to balance. We make room for every voice and work through shared agreements, competing needs, scheduling, metamour relationships, and repair across the whole system.